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Originally Posted by maleficent
I truly believe that for people to be happy in a a life long relationship, they need to have a life by themselves before they can share a life wtih someone else, otherwise there are a lot of what mighthave been moments.
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Exactly. Until you learn to be comfortable with yourself, how can you expect to be comfortable with someone else?
You are wise beyond your years, Crow. I don't see why you can't explain yourself (reservations and all) to your girlfriend. I would just make it absolutely clear that your hesitation to move in together isn't mistaken for rejection.
If she had no where to go that would be a different story, but make such a tremendous jump in the relationship (a jump that could possibly ruin the relationship) just because she's having a hard time...well, I hesitate to say because I don't know either of you, but I think your girlfriend is being a bit selfish.