Originally Posted by maleficent

Swinging isn't cheating. Much discussion has gone on between the couple before making the decision to plunge into that type of relationship, as well as ALL parties are aware of the ground rules.

Cheating is just that... cheating... it's not taking responsibility for your own actions, it's not being responsible enough to tell your partner, it's lying to your partner. Cheating is one person going off to be selfish and immature and doing exactly what they want to do and not giving a flying crap about the other parties involved... including the person that they are cheating with.