If you bought her flowers and she assumed you were apologizing/asskissing for something you did, this relationship will never work no matter what you try. You need to get out of it now. She will most likely never be in a relationship that works because I doubt that anyone who hadn't been with her for a while would put up with it as long as you have. The only positive thing I can say is that you have the patience of a saint to put up with that.
I consider trust to be the most important thing in a relationship. If that isn't there and can't happen, it won't work out and the whole thing should be abandoned immediately. I know girls/women (at that funny in-between stage called college) in relationships who can trust the guys they're with to walk through the red light district of Amsterdam with a pocket full of cash after 6 drinks, a joint, and half a bottle of Viagra (they do deserve that trust,) and those relationships work because the trust works both ways. If you can't even hang out with female friends without accusations flying, it just won't work.
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Originally Posted by tacobaal
no she hasent had any proffecional help, yes the guy that she smoked with was the guy that almost raped her (i went out and bought her mace today because of that)
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Read this thread:
http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/showthread.php?t=88914
There's some information about self-defense there that every woman should know. Read through the whole thread. I suggest you share it with her (although at 17 she can't join TFP yet, and from what you said it sounds like a good idea to not let her know what you're doing online.)