Cynthetiq

the lady i lived with prior to Skogafoss asked me the question:

"Are you wanting to marry me because you are settling?"

and after looking into my soul I found that I wasn't so much settling, but I was "doing the next steps." Not because I wanted to, but because it was the next step, since we dated, we moved in together, what's next? engaged and then married....

Did I settle for Skogafoss? In short, yes I did settle for her. Because that's what the implication is, I stopped looking and I decided conciously to not date anyone else.

But the long answer, is that I did not settle because because I realized after dating other people that I did not want to be without her. The others, eh, I didn't care.

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