This girl is not ready to be a 'fiancee' at 17 with so many issues. You're not in love, you want to be the adult and guide to a mixed up kid.
Marriage is major and way too many times we get stars in our eyes, thinking we will live a fairy tale. "if we got married, all would be perfect". That's not reality.
Be the true adult here-forget being engaged, try to help her as much as you can for now, and then, like Sin said, run.
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Don't blame me. I didn't vote for either of'em.
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