I once cheated on a man. I am now engaged to the person I cheated with. I was already out of love with my boyfriend, and had tried to break up with him several times, but he'd alternately scared/guilted me out of it. It's a little harder when you live together.
By cheat, I just mean kissing, and groping, no intercourse (but that's cheating in my books). And once I had done this, I did break up with my boyfriend within a week.
However, the man I cheated with and I had a VERY deep emotional connection, which doesn't seem to be the case with you and this girl.
If you want to stay out of trouble, and splint-free, I'd say tell her no.
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