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First....a few questions.
Under what circumstances did the two of you get into this conversation? I'm assuming you've asked her why she wants to be sexual with someone other than her soon-to-be husband. What was her response? If it was purely sexual, do you think this is something she can emotionally handle? Have you explained to her that this "request" is highly unusual and brings into question her relationship with her boyfriend? Any ideas as to why she is getting married? When you asked her what her boyfriend would think of this, what did she say?
Second....You're going to have to analyze her emotional and mental state and then make a decision from there. If this is something she's done before, then she's obviously thought this through and understands the dynamics of such a relationship. (If you turn her down, she'll probably find someone else.)
If you honestly feel that the two of you can handle this...go for it.
MoJo
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