I do not think it is wrong to hope for some help with stuff. Not only are my children 5 1/2 years apart, but first was a girl and second was a boy. We needed clothes in a bad way. I do not think the mother should throw her own shower either, but if someone wants to do it, why not? My 2nd shower was more like just a gathering, none of that typical shower stuff, and my husband's family planned it. They love to have a get together for any reason and celebrate family. Good luck to you!
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