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Axiom_e · 05-16-2005, 08:52 AM

I think I have decided on my course of action, but I want to pick the brains of the forum.

Problem: There is a female that I have know for a few years and there is a physical attraction between us. She wants to act on this physical attraction and under normal circumstances I would be happy to comply. Problem is she is recently engaged. *da da duuuuuum*

As of right now we haven't done anything, but we may in the future.
(and you can all say I told you so after I come back here whining about all the problems this relationship caused)

I spoken to her about the things that could possibly go sour if we do anything. She has wavied them all away. *side note* she has cheated on her boyfriend now fiance before.

I told her that I didn't want a relationship and that all it would be is sex.
I don't want to be anybodies escape from a situation they feel powerless in.

I have several different minds of thought on the matter.

mind one:
I still have time to change my mind and not do this. After all I wouldn't want anyone to do this to me. She is probably looking for a way out of a situation she doesn't want to be in. I care about her and know this will only hurt her in the future.

mind two:
Fuck her man-she is free pussy. When things go sour, kick her ass to the curb.

mind three:
She is probably just needs an outlet to vent sexual innuendos/energy. So play the game.
But don't expect to see the touch down.

mind four:
meh.

I shift through all these mindsets. I wonder which one will succeed in the end. I think I am going through a quarter life crisis.

Do you guys have any input on her motivations or mine?

05-16-2005, 08:52 AM	#1 (permalink)
Axiom_e Tilted Location: United States, East Coast, New Jersey	Am I someones escape? I think I have decided on my course of action, but I want to pick the brains of the forum. Problem: There is a female that I have know for a few years and there is a physical attraction between us. She wants to act on this physical attraction and under normal circumstances I would be happy to comply. Problem is she is recently engaged. da da duuuuuum As of right now we haven't done anything, but we may in the future. (and you can all say I told you so after I come back here whining about all the problems this relationship caused) I spoken to her about the things that could possibly go sour if we do anything. She has wavied them all away. side note she has cheated on her boyfriend now fiance before. I told her that I didn't want a relationship and that all it would be is sex. I don't want to be anybodies escape from a situation they feel powerless in. I have several different minds of thought on the matter. mind one: I still have time to change my mind and not do this. After all I wouldn't want anyone to do this to me. She is probably looking for a way out of a situation she doesn't want to be in. I care about her and know this will only hurt her in the future. mind two: Fuck her man-she is free pussy. When things go sour, kick her ass to the curb. mind three: She is probably just needs an outlet to vent sexual innuendos/energy. So play the game. But don't expect to see the touch down. mind four: meh. I shift through all these mindsets. I wonder which one will succeed in the end. I think I am going through a quarter life crisis. Do you guys have any input on her motivations or mine? __________________ Life is meaningless. How awesome is that? Rock On! Now I can do whatever the hell I want and give my own life meaning to myself.