Mate, this girl is way out of line, she seems like a psycho bitch from hell to me.
She's had all these problems in her life so far, that's terrible and I wouldn't wish it on anyone. I would suggest you stick around and help her IF she appeared to want your help. If she's not willing to accept your help, if she just ignored her problem and was an otherwise good person but denied she had a problem then I'd suggest you stick by her.
She's clearly not like that. She's insensitive, controlling, clearly bloody immature. And I agree with mal about this probably stemming from being abused in the past. If she doesn't want your help and is this vehemently opposed to fairness, equality and trust in the relationship, then mate, fuck that, get up and leave.
If you believe you can help her and she will accept that help and deal with her faults and her past abuse, and become the wife you've always dreamed of, then stick by her. But I'm sorry to say by what you've said I don't think there are going to be many people on the TFP that believe that'll happen. You're twenty years old, you don't have to deal with this at all. She's a seventeen year old girl with emotional issues. It's never going to work out.
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