I"m having trouble understanding this...
lemme see if I understand.
You and your fiance are in a long distance relationship
How long have you been seeing her, and how long have you been engaged.
Your girlfriend is the jealous untrusting sort and would prefer it if you lived in a monastary and spent no time at all with the opposite sex.
Have you ever given your girlfriend a reason to be jealous, or cause her not to trust you.
What have her past relationships been like? Has she been cheated on in the past?
Your girlfriend is going to a party tonite, where she will be the only girl there without a boyfriend and you told her you were concerned about her hooking up with someone else at the party, because you don't trust her.
Has she ever given you a reason not to trust her?
Have you been cheated on in the past?
She's pissed that you would suspect her of cheating, so much so that you don't know if you still have a relationship.
How old are both of you and when are you planning on getting married.
You both have some major trust issues to work out before you even want to contemplate getting married before this gets resolved. You can't help but have contact wiht the opposite sex in your daily dealings wiht people, if she's going to be concerned wiht every person you come in contact with, this relationship will get old really quickly.
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Last edited by maleficent; 05-13-2005 at 09:45 PM..
Reason: I was typing the same time as Harry, not real clear on what happened
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