well, i dont think you were wrong for telling her what you thought. the only thing i think is a bit ironic is you mentioned you are a little bit overweight and that you brought up her weight problem. are you in the same... weight class as her? you could have probably approached it better -- ie saying you both should lose weight, eat healthier, watch what you eat, more exercise, etc. instead of going straight for the jugular and saying she was overweight. but regardless, putting the world into glossy terms to convience someone's inability to deal with the truth shouldn't be your bag, that's Dr. Phil's
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