Look, there was a guy lurkette and I knew in college... He was the only one who didn't know he was gay. He was so obviously gay it was just painful. And he kept having these half-hearted and awkward relationships with women. The women knew better, but somehow they were attracted to him anyway... It was just a complete train wreck.
Turns out, a couple years after graduation he figured it out for himself, and is now a very happy and very well-adjusted gay man. When we last heard from him, he was living with another friend of ours, one of those hopeful women he abortively dated.
My point is, you've got to let him see it for himself. He'll figure out his own sexuality in his own time.
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