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Originally Posted by StephenSa
. Gonna be with my wife forever though. This is just bump in the road. She is the most fantastic woman I've ever met and together we can fix this. Thanks again for the replies. 'Night all......
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That statement right there defines. I am of the opinion you are doing what needs to be done, and while the "Way" you approached this may have been lacking somewhat, the issue needed to be addressed. If you intend to spend your life with someone, Both parties should work towards happiness, even knowing it will come and go. I would hope she works out the obvious self esteem issues she carries, allowing for honest discussion....but you need to understand this may very well take some time.
I would also recommend in the future, you spend more time in thought as to the personality of your chosen mate and use the information to smooth out an approach before acting. I have found reflection of possible reaction to my action, saves an enormous amount of unneeded grief. And makes my life so much easier.