I dunno, I came home tonight and she still treats me like a ghost. I can't go back on what I said because I was being honest and she knows it. Any backtracking would be a lie, although what I said to what she heard/felt are two different things. I can't even address it with her as she won't talk to me. I didn't cheat on her, I didn't burn down the house, I didn't squander the family savings. I just tried to address a problem she had made it quite aware we had. I'm not a bad guy. I maybe approached the issue poorly but much like Popeye "I ams what I ams". Counseling seems in our future which isn't such a bad thing. If for nothing else then to have a referee. It's late and I have to sleep. Thanks again for everyone. BTW I'm not ignoring your input Chickentribs but its late and again, sleep calls. Also, Sweetpea, I really wish you were a friend of my wife. I could use a local with my train of thought. I find your attitude much like my own. Shanifaye, if you are still monitoring good to get that side of things too. To hear that opinion without emotional connection involved has much worth. I have SO MUCH to learn about women. Lets face it, I need all the help I can get. Gonna be with my wife forever though. This is just bump in the road. She is the most fantastic woman I've ever met and together we can fix this. Thanks again for the replies. 'Night all......
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