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Originally Posted by abaya
If we were in the situation that you are in, Raeanna, I think I would be miserable and want out of there... and in fact, we WERE in that situation when we were stuck living together prematurely, for 5 months, and I nearly broke up with him at the end.
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This is how I once thought. I have since learned to communicate things better. I do things for myself or simply because they need to be done. Granted I like to be given credit for what I do sometimes because I know if I didn't do the dishes daily that someone would eventually come whining to me for a mold free dish to eat off of. But in general and on a day to day basis I do it for myself. I have learned to be much more open and to express my desires without being restrictive. At least no more restrictive than I can help myself being.
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