Well I know people who never had kids and never regretted it. I also know some who said they never wanted kids and now do and couldn't imagine not having them. I know for myself that when my husband and I married we were young. I was only 19 and he was only 21. We knew we wanted kids someday just not right then. However once we were married about a year and a half I really started wanting to have children. I wanted them while I was still young. He wasn't as ready and wanted to wait so we did. For 5 1/2 years we waited. Last summer we decided we were ready and to our suprise 3 weeks later we found out we were already 6 wks pregnant! My son was born March 9th. After only 2 months I can't imagine life without him.!
Before he came along my husband and I had a great relationship, we just bought our first house that I LOVE, but it still just wasnt enough. Now that my son is here I feel like I have everything I ever wanted. I never saw myself as a career woman, I just wanted to grow up, get married, and be a mommy. My husband has the career, but also works from home so he gets to be here with the baby all day too, and he loves it.
I wouldn't say that I had a baby to complete me, but I know my life is exactly where I always wanted it to be. The only way it could be better now is to have more children.....way way in the future
