StephanSa, You did nothing wrong in being honest with your wife and the courage it took for you stand firm and tell the truth is pretty amazing. It was a talk you both agreed to that was necessary, and answering her questions with anything less than the truth would have been unfair to both of you. Of course her wieght is a sensitive topic, but not lying to her when you both knew the truth was incredibly important. She didn't take your credibility away from you and that trust will be key for both of you as you work through this.
Her running from the room and not speaking to you for a week and then finally insisting you don't love her and could never love her like she loves you is textbook maniac depressive.
There are many ways for a person to be controlling, but The Victim is especially tough because you will never be allowed to even fight. One cross word and she has already given herself permission to leave the room and punish you with no communication.
I am not a doctor but it is very important that the two of you get in front of a counslor soon. The rules have been set and you need an authority figure with experience in clinical depression and probably medication to get her out of the world she has created. You can't do it alone and from the sounds of your previous post this has been going on a while. I apologize if I am wrong or out of line, but I have familiarity with this path and it is better to be safe than sorry. IM me if you would like to talk...
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