Originally Posted by abaya

You hit the nail on the head, lurkette... this is the thing that has ALWAYS bugged me most about other women, when they are trying to play the "mysterious" role and get attention that way. And actually, the sad fact is that most of them succeed... many, many guys LOVE the mysterious woman, the whole "chase" and game thing, and that's WHY the women continue doing it... because they see how the girls who are "one of the guys" don't get boyfriends until college or afterwards.