When I saw the thread title, I thought you meant fear of spiders and I thought: Sucks like hell. Then I was going to tell you one of mine episodes to make you feel better... But what I
really need to do is to learn my fears properly.
What I can say though, is that when I was 12-17, I feared pretty much anything gross and ugly (bees, cockroaches, bats, spiders, snakes, the list goes on and on), to the point where I can't even look at it in magazines or make myself turn the page if my finger was going to touch the page. (I
hated National Geographics, but now that I'm a bit older (18), I'm not
as scared of some of those things anymore. Which isn't as helpful as I'd like it to be, so I'll just say 'good luck'.