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my first love was back in uni..and yes i was heartbroken, and yes we were friends sow e shared the same friends too, so i really do see myself in you when u tell ure story.
i basically did the same thing.. i distanced myself from her, just to get away. its not healthy to get cut on a regular basis everytime u see them. plus it brings back old uncomfortable feelings that you know u can do without , especially since this sounds like a fresh wound to me.
distance is good..but going and locking ureself up in a room away from society is not. go out have fun..yes u will think of them from time to time, but as time goes on you will find that you will think of them less often, and your feeling will subside.. its been about 7 or 8 years now for me, but i still think about my first love every now and then.. i dont think anyone forgets their first love, that feeling of uninhibited loved..that excruciating feeling of overwhelmness.... ive never felt that again..i guess thats why the same goes "love like you've never been hurt", but its hard to do that.
my advice..go have fun..just dont get depressed about it (took me 6 months of depression to get over it..but in the end i just said &^%$ it, my life is worth more than this)..your love is waiting somewhere....it'll come along...patience is the key.
stop being resentful, and think positive.
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