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this being a message board Im sure this is gonna come out soundy slightly more bitch than it would sound were I talking directly to you....
you married someone and expect them to stay the same shape/size they were when you married them? Mistake #1
you basically told her you are only attracted to her looks, via telling her that her weight turned you off. Mistake #2
Im really not surprised she reacted the way she did, granted Im not a skinny girl now, and my weight has been up and down since I met dave (not drastically but 10 pounds either way) but at least I know that he loves ME, (yes he's attracted to me...he hates skinny chicks) but I know that if by some miracle I lost 30 pounds he wouldnt think Im not attractive because I got skinnier and that our sex life would still be the same. I honestly have no advice on what you should do, because in her shoes I'd be pretty darn upset and have some major hurt feelings.
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I want the diabetic plan that comes with rollover carbs. I dont like the unused one expiring at midnite!!
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