Dude, you screwed up.
I wouldn't say that you're wrong to want those things, but you attempted to apply a rational thought process to a highly emotional topic, there's no way that could have ended well.
Since you really do love this women, apologize, don't tell her that it's a turn off, tell her that you're worried about your health and hers and would like to start that program, if you care about her like I'm assuming you do that's true as well. Admit that you were being shallow and stay calm when you talk to her, I would be willing to bet that she was already hypersensitive to her weight and it's going to be difficult to make her look at it rationally, if that's even possible.
Take her on one of those romantic nights out, just the two of you, and see what happens. I'd say the two of you have some serious communicating to do.
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