"Search"? Such a strong word, don't you think??
It's interesting to me how threads that haven't been discussed in a long time get brought back up - why do you ask?
Basically, we’re in a holding pattern. Like ShaniFaye, we’ve discussed the possibilities and our “boundaries”, so should someone be interested in a couple such as ourselves, we already know the stuff that’s okay and not okay, so we can communicate that to someone else in that situation.
Other than that?? I don’t know! I’m not likely to just say “Hi, (person’s name inserted here), wanna fuck?” I’m not so good at planning these things ahead, or sometimes, even recognizing the possibilities. I think we’re going to be a little more open about the idea with some of our friends (those who won’t totally freak out or not understand), and let that be the instigator. I’m not comfortable approaching someone uninitiated, or without provocation. I.e., unless someone has been flirting with us already and they're aware of our, um, proclivities, I’m not likely to just bring it up out of nowhere.
It’s funny, I read the above, and it sounds like we would just take anyone who was interested. That’s not the case… we’re both pretty aware that anyone who involves themselves with us should be someone we both feel is special.
Nothing’s simple, hm?
