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I have found it in the approach we men take, and careful observation of body language/hidden meaning in text. Most women in my limited experience will tell you what they want if you take the time and energy required to "Read" them. It would seem women are far more adept at projecting feelings in subtle ways, the key here is recognizing small, and often unintended signs placed within the interactions.
Yes, on the surface a No often means Yes.....but if care is taken when the No is expressed, the Yes becomes obvious. There is always the chance of misinterpretation by the one reading her....but that is just the way it is. We males also put a bit of ourselves into the message through our own Ego. If we are confident in ourselves, we are more likely to see the Yes in the No....because of human nature and previous experience in what women see in us. That said, there is also the Obvious No....and it needs to be respected above all other statement....for her protection, and to limit the humiliation we place upon ourselves.
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Holding onto anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned. - Buddha
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