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Old 05-10-2005, 08:48 PM   #13 (permalink)
lurkette
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Fuck no I don't get 'em. Never have, doubt I ever will.

I'm dealing with the "if you want me too much then I don't want you, but if you didn't want me then I'd totally want you" game with my potentially again um-friend D, and the conclusion I have come to is this:

NO GAMES!!!

I was about to start playing the game and pretend I was completely disinterested, and then I thought, NO. NO GAMES!!! If she doesn't want to have a relationship, fine. But if she does, then she can put on her big girl panties and admit it. Give up the control shit and the hard to get shit and the being the center of the universe shit and act like an adult. I am not willing to be a cog in someone's self-esteem machine. And all of a sudden I really DON'T care if she wants to have a relationship or not.

Fuck no I don't get 'em. I don't get myself half the damn time!

As for the "no means yes" crap, that is inexcusable. I don't understand it at all.
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