I've found in my life that I've had an easier time being close friends with guys rather than girls, or at least I have an equal amount of girl friends and guy friends. And I've never had a problem with being totally honest and communicative with Secret. So I guess I'm either a freak or lucky. 
I think it's important that people get past the idea that girls can only be close with girls and not men, and be friends with whoever they like in whatever way works for them.
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"The world is so exquisite with so much love and moral depth, that there is no reason to deceive ourselves with pretty stories for which there’s little good evidence. Far better it seems to me, in our vulnerability, is to look death in the eye and to be grateful every day for the brief but magnificent opportunity that life provides"
-Carl Sagan
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