I try to take my life in small steps. And seeing as I am only 19 and have yet to be in a serious relationship, the answer is no.
I still think my answer would be no, whatever my dating status was. And that is because like Lurkette I don't think complete is a good word to use, fulfill is better.
A child is a big step, one I am most definitely not ready for, especially mentally. Now don't get me wrong, I love kids, I am crazy about my cousins, I love to babysit them. But I realize how much dependency that requires on your part, and how important it is to be prepared to take care of a child, as there are many things that come with a child.
I most definitely want some time to myself, and when I find the right guy in a few years, I'll want to spend time just with him. When I am ready for a child, I don't believe it will complete me, rather, it will be another step that I have taken in my life.
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