well, i spent the first 6 months of my current relationship seeing my SO everyday. i could count on 1 hand the days that i didn't see him for a little bit. but he graduated from school and had to move back to Philidelphia (i am in Rochester N.Y.) all of a sudden he was gone. at first, it was very difficult to handle, i would just start thinking about it, and start crying randomly, and my friends were always here to help me.
it doesn't help any that he doesn't like talking on the phone for long periods of time. we talk everyday, but it is never for a very long time. i write him letters, a lot of letters, but he doesn't write so much because he works on his computer projects during the days, and we talk at night.
it was a month and one day before i got to see him again, and it has been 22 days since i have seen him. i don't know when i am going to get to see him again either, since i am going home (Northern O.H.) in 8 days for summer break. we are both going to be working, and he is taking a summer class. i miss him a lot, and i have things around me that remind me of him, so it makes things easier. and as for sleeping without him, i have one of his shirts (that still smells like him after all this time) that i sleep with.
good luck! i hope you get to see her soon!
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