My spouse says it's cheating- I say it's fun. I don't think we'll ever come to terms on this issue and I'm pretty sure he probably has the thought going through his head that, as I am in chat or talking in IM, I may be doing 'it' again. But I have found it to be amusing more than satisfying-the silly text of trying to convey what you're doing and reading what another is doing at the same time can bring me to giggles. It may begin as very hot flirting, but, for me at least, takes a nosedive pretty quickly.
If you are comfortable with what you do, have no guilt over it, then by all means, continue-you both reap rewards. I find it strange though, that, being married you aren't even sure about how or if the spouse masturbates!
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