Get her best girlfriend to go with her to the clinic. (she has to go, there's no way around it.) I know you're her love and her lover, but sometimes a lady just needs another lady to stand with her.
If you're having sex, you need to have a pelvic examination at least once a year, and if there's something wrong with your lady bits, it's even more important to get checked out. The idea of pap smears is scary, I'll admit that I cried the morning before I went to my first, but it's really not that bad, if a bit awkward.
Your poor girl. It's so unnerving to have something strange happen to your lady bits.
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