There will never be resolution of self, in the way you seem to wish. If there were we would all become enlightened and there would be a bunch of Avatar/Christ/Buddahs walking around thinking at each other. I have found the key is acceptance of the limitations placed on growth by reality, and paying close attention to what aspects we DO understand, limited though it may be. Each moment has the potential to give definition to who we are, and in doing so make us a bit more whole. It is up to each of us to decide what that may be, by learning from the trials of our lives in this place.
There is no one path to life.....but there are alot of beautiful trees on the sides of the trail. Some are so old and have grown so big, we can all see them from our individual piece of the forest.
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Holding onto anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned. - Buddha
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