Stormberlin: I wasn't talking about your situation or any one in particular. From the way you describe it, it sounds as if his marriage is over already, and if so, that puts him into the "available" column. Yes, you should be careful to make sure nobody gets hurt unnecessarily, but that's true of all relationships. Separated and headed for divorce isn't the same as married and unavailable.
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