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Originally Posted by Vincentt
*ahem*
I never said "women are deceitful bitches"
If a guy were to say "I don't want a relationship" it would mean the same thing.
Sorry to have struck a nerve there.
All I said was check it out, I guess you could follow everyone elses advice and assume she is the perfect girl who would never lie or hide anything.
Getting all freaked out about a relationship is strange behavior, I think it is worth asking about.
"I don't want relationship" is a good way for bringing someone down easy.
And when you say things like "If we get married, I'll post invitations here." well that kinda makes me feel like you are thinking a bit to far ahead there... that might be what is creeping her out.
If I heard those words from a girl I was dating, I would feel kinda odd.
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no offense taken, and to just ameliorate the previous posted sentiments, what you described is exactly what I experienced. A guy I was dating told me that he didn't want to start a relationship yet (after 4 dates, the last couple where I let my guard down a fair bit) and I found out that he was assessing another girl at the same time.
So it was a rather successful strategy that he employed , which I fell for. Now I view those statments as self serving at the very least.