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Yes, I've had affairs with married men. It's something I'm ashamed of, as with many other things I did with that part of my life.
There was a time in my past when I was so desperate for love, affection, or anything resembling that, that I would let men use me for sex, even if they were married. Hell, their being married made it better, eaisier in a way, because it mean that they were "safe". This was all part of a pattern of unhealthy thought and behavior I engaged in for a long time.
I don't know enough about you or your situation to offer advice, but I do know that it never worked out for me. You may need to ask yourself, are you attracted to him because he's unavailable? This is a very common reason why women get involved with married men.
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