Sage

alright. can anyone say "mid-life crisis?"

Don't do anything stupid. Having a relationship with a man who is married is stupid. Why? Because even if it's fun at the time, IT'S STILL A BAD IDEA TO GO FUCKING WITH ANOTHER WOMAN'S MAN!!! I mean, ok, so perhaps she's not a psycho, and perhaps she never finds out about it, but what if she does? What if she's some total pent-up psychotic bitch and comes after you when the divorce is final? Are there kids in this situation? Would you be willing for him to leave his wife, be with you, and you accept all the baggage that comes along with it?

How would you feel if your dad was boning a woman half his age behind your mother's back? Or if your best friend was boning your boyfriend behind your back? Karma can, and will, come back to kick you in the ass on this one, I promise.

How do you know he'd be only having sex with you? If he's having one affair he can be having more than one. Are you his first affair? Does he have some disease?

If he's 35 and you're 20 it just sounds like he wants a trophy and some re-affirmation of his manhood. Respect yourself enough not to stoop so low that you resort to dating married men.

ps- I have been "the other woman" in a very small, very accidental scandal that involved frenching an engaged man for about two minutes. She went psycho on him, he went psycho on me, ended rather badly. DON'T DO IT!!!

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