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I think Vincentt may be a little harsh here...
Two friends of mine are in a similar situation as yours, dalnet. Andrew wants to call Maddie his girlfriend, she's not into it. I can't defend her reasoning, as I don't know it, but it doesn't mean that she doesn't like him back in the same way.
Even if she does think of herself as "yours" after your one night, it sounds like "girlfriend" is a loaded term for her. Let her relax into it and keep things mellow. If you're introducing her to someone, refer to her by her name, not by her association to you. It's the nice thing to do with women anyway!
Best of luck dalnet!
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