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dalnet22 · 05-04-2005, 01:12 PM

This girl who lives near me back home, and who I've never heard of, contacted me online. I asked her out, and she was excited about it. The next night we went out, and I slept w/ her, but all we did is make out. The next week I referred to her as my girlfriend, and she became scared. She told me she was scared of getting into a relationship, and she doesn't know what to do cause she likes me a lot and she's struggling to decide what to do. We decided to say we're dating, and since then we do the typical dating stuff.

Anyways, my problem is that I really like her, and I don't know what to do. I'm afraid of putting a lot into this if she's too scared to get into a relationship. What do you guys think I should do? I'm telling myself to just be patient and go with the flow, don't get too wrapped up in her. Do you guys agree, and if not, what do you suggest I do?

05-04-2005, 01:12 PM	#1 (permalink)
dalnet22 Crazy	Girl's scared of relationship, what do I do? This girl who lives near me back home, and who I've never heard of, contacted me online. I asked her out, and she was excited about it. The next night we went out, and I slept w/ her, but all we did is make out. The next week I referred to her as my girlfriend, and she became scared. She told me she was scared of getting into a relationship, and she doesn't know what to do cause she likes me a lot and she's struggling to decide what to do. We decided to say we're dating, and since then we do the typical dating stuff. Anyways, my problem is that I really like her, and I don't know what to do. I'm afraid of putting a lot into this if she's too scared to get into a relationship. What do you guys think I should do? I'm telling myself to just be patient and go with the flow, don't get too wrapped up in her. Do you guys agree, and if not, what do you suggest I do?