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Old 05-03-2005, 07:17 PM   #1 (permalink)
Rudel73
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Need advice desperately!

Ok this story is complicated...and i guess its not really about me i just care for this person a lot and she calls me crying and i dont know what to do!

so here goes


Ok so ill name her "girl" she was in a relation ship with "ex" for about 2 and a half years, "ex" has been known to be unstable and at times has exhibited suicidal behavior, cut himself, etc etc.... this was before he was with her... and sorta during when they had small breaks. Anyways, "girl" and "ex" have been broken up for about 4-5 months now, "ex" can not let her go. He calls her at least 2-3 times everyday, constantly asks to hang out with her, constantly asks to get back together etc etc.... "girl" gets extremely annoyed by "ex" thinks everything "ex" does is annoying she gets in a bad mood just being around him because hes constantly immature and always has a negative attitude. but "girl" still cares very deeply for "ex" so she cannot just let him go..."ex" writes her nasty letters blaming her for all of his problems, "girl" thinks everything is her fault, its her fault hes so depressed etc etc ... she finally snapped tonight and called me completely crying she could barely talk ... said she doesnt know what to do anymore and i didnt know what to say!! he is always upset and she thinks its her fault...

Sorry if that is confusing, if you have any questions ill make sure and respond as fast as possible to help you understand the problem...
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