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Martian,
One of the things that's probably making it more difficult is that you had a close-proximity life beforehand (although I could be wrong).
I don't know what it's like to be with majik_6 daily....anything we want to experience together needs to planned at least 3 weeks in advance, and all our plans (especially seeing the other's family) needs to be crammed in a short amount of time.
At first, I wouldn't do the whole phone-sex thing, it just seemed odd.....then, one night, it just happened, and believe it or not, it helps. Since you live in Toronto, look into Sprint's long-distance plan, which is valid 24/7, and is only $29.99 a month for unlimited calls to North America (I save about $1500/month), and maybe she could get Vonage, which I believe has the same plan and goes through the internet.
Some things that can make you both feel more together is text-messaging or e-mailing poems or quotes to each other, sending mix cds you've made, and even taking candid pics at photo booths or buying her favorite candy and mailing them off to her.
If you're curious about anything else, or having a rough time, feel free to PM me.
Good luck!
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