All about being comfortable in your own skin after you say "Hi, I'm XXX, what's your name?"
You can tell her "Hey you know, I see you everytime I'm leaving this class, I was wondering what your name is? I couldn't keep pullin the whole 'I'm gonna walk by everybody around me like I don't see them' routine people seem to like around here"
Makes you sound confident and outgoing, and at the same time not too sketchy. If you say that line with calmess, a little humor and some sincerity, you're in. If you stumble over it and say it robotically, you're toast.
Just remember that before you approach her, she is nothing to you. She is just a cute girl you see every day for a brief moment. If she rejects you or has a bad attitude, then who needs her? Your life won't change, and you definitely don't know enough about her to know whether she's the kind of person getting rejected by is even worth worrying about, she could be a lesbian, or a complete mess inside her own head. Most people are.
Go with the flow, and talk about her more than you if you can.
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