I never cheated, nor was I ever cheated on to my pretty darn certain knowledge. Any temptation I have yet felt was not urgent, just kind of thrilling (maximum time I think has been a few dances in a row with someone
). I never analyzed it (not cheating), just lived it. I've actually been separated for months now and still don't really have a hankering to go out and seek some companionship. I've seen the results of infidelity within my close family, and it sucks to be them. But I bet the whole relationship is turbocharged, and a rush like that would be a complete wow from head to toe - if you were able to just take it for a ride so to speak.