My twins are boy/girl and there is a definite mindset that seems be evolutionary. She never cared for cars-he would line them up by size and color(ok, not normal, but that's my kid). He thought playing with dolls meant you pulled their heads off and threw them around, which would make her cry-she did their hair, their clothes and mommied the baby dolls. They both had legos and blocks but she didn't take much interest in those-she preferred making beaded bracelets.
As they grew, this mindset continued. She talks online and plays few games-he plays wargames-talks little.
Even as infants, he was the aggressor-chasing her in their walkers and such.
I just basically followed their lead rather than push one way or another when it came to play choices.
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