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I would say avoid them entirely, and I do agree with the others, this isn't just a female thing, there are men like that also. It makes me sick to know that people would sit there and expect to be showered with whatever. I don't expect anything from anyone, as long as I have the strength to work, I shall do so and provide for myself, and that means paying my bills, clothes, food and etc.
It's frustrating to be around people that expects certain things from you, it shouldn't be that way, it should always be you, whether you want to do something kind or not. I mean, it doesn't hurt to do something for someone every now and then, BUT, as long as that person can appreciate it.
I no longer feel that I need to do something for someone who won't be able to return their kindness in days, months, years to come, I've been burnt too many times.
I feel your pain, just move forward.
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