I've been in a relationship for a year and a half and whenever I see another attractive guy, it just reminds me of how lucky I am to be with my boyfriend. It's the same for him. Attractive guys hardly turn my head or cross my mind now. It should be a pretty healthy, normal part of relationships to look though.. You might find sharing to each other and the honesty of that happening every once in awhile to be assuring. If you have to keep it a secret, then I'd worry.
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