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Originally Posted by Martian
...Aside from that, I haven't had much trouble getting what I want. I've always attributed that to my attitude (rather than wishing, I figure out where I want to be and then what I need to do to get there) and my ability to visualize these things. I'm the sort of guy that refuses to believe that anything is out of my reach and therefore I generally manage to get what it is I'm after.
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Originally Posted by Martian
...and this will allow me to get to that position much more quickly than I could've on my own. There are ten of us involved, all hand picked by our mentor of sorts and he's willing to use the influence he's gained over the years to help us get to where we need to be.
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You seem to have a bit of an identity crisis OR you're faith in the "consultant" and the rest of the group may be higher than your faith in yourself.
I share a similar attitude with you regarding myself and my ability to get what I want. Over the years, I've learned to trust MYSELF and that ability. I'm more than glad to seek out help from others when I need it (I attribute that to MYSELF being smart enough to do so!); but wary of being a "pawn" in another's grand plan.
Are you a "partner" in this endeavor?