Both my wife and I talk about other people and comment on them. We are secure enough in our relationship to know that even if we see other people as attractive, that doesn't mean we are going to jump ship and start a new relationship. We all judge beauty by our own standards with almost everyone we see.
The best thing for you to do is talk to her about it. If the comments bother you, they don't have any place in the relationship. Just let her know that it makes you uncomfortable and ask her to stop commenting when you are around.
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A little rudeness and disrespect can elevate a meaningless interaction to a battle of wills and add drama to an otherwise dull day. Calvin
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