I would highly recommend you consider the advice about self pleasuring in this thread. As always, the members here have given very sound advice.
My take is a three step process to evaluate the actual issue:
!) find out if this is a physical problem....thus the self pleasure.
2) evaluate the medication based on your doctors advice.
3) slowly work on your wifes hang ups about her sexuality (yes she has some, we all do)
Lastly.....it is also possible this is not as big an issue as it seems, and may be temporary.
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