OK then, here's a little fun trick. Have her use your hand to masturbate. You keep your hand and fingers stiff, finger(s) crooked, and arm loose. She moves your hand wherever she needs it, as firm/gentle or fast/slow as she needs. Hopefully, this will let her tell you what she needs without having to put it into words. I learned a lot from my SO when we did that, and we were already comfortable talking about sex and had been doing it for probably 6 years or so.
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Last edited by Redlemon; 04-29-2005 at 01:03 PM..
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