I need serious help. I can't get my wife off.
First off, thank you all in advance for all the help I have recieved from the members of this board. It's great to have a place like this to come to when you need advice. And to know that most of the people here genuinely want to help.
Second, this is a serious post, so please keep any and all nonsense replies to yourselves. Normally I love the occasional joke reply. But not this time.
My wife has been ill for about two years now, she has a myriad of problems, fibromyalgia (chronic pain and fatigue), depression, anxiety, ulcers and sleeping problems. While these problems do affect her day to day routines, we have tried to remain as affectionate and loving as possible. By the way she's only 33 years old. While we used to have sex 3 to 4 times a week, we are now down to about 3 to 4 times a month. I am 30 and still have the libido of a 15 year old. I can do it any day, any time, any where, several times a day. Now, I can deal with 3 to 4 times a month, that's not the problem. Just because I could have sex several times a day, every day, doesn't mean I have to. The problem is that my wife seems to have lost her ability to orgasm. I don't know if it is from her illnesses or the medications she takes for those illnesses. All I know is that it is killing me that she can't come. I have tried everything I can think of to help her have an orgasm, but nothing seems to work. And I really don't enjoy sex that much if she can't enjoy it to. I feel more satisfied making her come, than her making me come. If i'm the only one to get any satisfaction from it, I might as well just masterbate.
Anyway, last night she woke me up at 1:30 am and told me that she had a sexy dream, that she was horny, and she begged me to make her come. I did my best to make her come. But after 45 minutes she got frustrated and gave up. She said she was horny and wet and she enjoyed the hell out of it, but she couldn't come. I felt so bad for her.
So, what I need from you guys is some suggestions on how I might make my wife have an orgasm. I have tried using my hands, my tongue, my member, toys, dirty talk, tying her up etc.. but so far nothing. She hasn't had an orgasm in about 18 months and it's pissing me off.
Please help?
Thank you all
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